mr. benjamin has been talking about his birthday party for months now. or let me rephrase that, he has been talking about a lightning mcqueen birthday cake for months now. i think it's awesome when kids come up with their own ideas; i hope to encourage his planning skills from the get-go. (let me warn you; licensed characters don't come cheap however. don't get me started on the price of a disney themed pinata. which is why the cake and the puny paper plates were really the only thing i went all lightning mcqueeny theme-y on. not sure he would've wanted to bash his race car hero to oblivion for the tootsie rolls inside anyway.) but i was delighted we could make his one birthday wish a reality (may they always remain so simple and sweet)!
so plans for the party were bubbling. i toyed with the idea of hosting friends, cousins and the like but stopped myself and decided instead to keep the event down to the basics. our summer has been hectic enough with so much house-hopping hassle. i wanted to give him a birthday devoted to what he currently loves: cars, his grandparents, chocolate birthday cake, surprises, and--most important to a three year old--our undivided attention. here are a few glimpses of our day together.

THE MORNING OF // benji noticed the birthday banner and knew it was a very special day. we opened a few simple presents; including a doctor kit and a patient, johnnie (isn't he cute?! we adopted him from ikea). we ate german pancakes. together we unbubble-wrapped the singing cake plate. we watched it turn and spin a few times for rehearsal. he loved all the birthday prep. i even took him with me to granite bakery to pick up his cake. but no peeking til the party. now you know i'm all about from-scratch-cakes, but i must admit, there is something very charming about picking up a giant white box from the bakery and attempting to tote it home with care.


AN HOUR BEFORE // i decided to think about 'decorations'. since grandparents were the only guests, i wasn't as hyper about having everything just so. it was much more relaxed and fun. i surveyed my mother-in-law's collection of linens and discovered the vintage car sheets from dan's youth! perfect! i took them in my arms, along with a roll of masking tape, down to the patio. a fitted twin sheet fit like magic on the large table and i used two pillow cases as 'table toppers' for the smaller tables. i taped the edges underneath to disguise their bedding appearance. i gathered a few of benji's favorite vintage fisher price cars to display as centerpieces. as luck would have it, a flower arrangement was delivered to us on the very day of the party. i love a happy coincidence. we set out cars and a small welcome sign. we also laid out a car mat inside for benji to play on while the adults mingled.

LETS GET THIS PARTY STARTED // we pulled out the bubble machine to welcome guests in style. (best nineteen dollars ever spent at Target; on clearance last year at the end of august!) benji was happy to man the machine. after cutting the cake, serving it up, and singing to the smiling guest of honor, the big surprise was unveiled.
THE MAIN ATTRACTION // luckily our 'grand' guests didn't mind that the main party game was watching how many men it takes to put together a wagon; three generations! the birthday boy was happy to observe, feel it out and read the instructions about his new set of wheels. i don't know who was more excited; benji or his dad. (it's pretty cute to see a papa and his boy work on a project together.)


FAVORS FOR PENPALS // while we did away with many of the typical birthday party elements (finger foods, balloons, etc.), i still thought it would be fun to do a party favor. these were so darling, i couldn't resist! however these racers didn't go home with the guests.. they were mailed in padded envelopes to benji's buddies (now penpals) back in idaho. (wooden race cars w/ paint set available at Target, in the party aisle.)
this happy birthday party was a piece of cake.